The "One Sided" Wants of life

So have you ever been faced with wanting something but in return you not willing to give back. Sometimes its easy to dismiss the little things over the big things when wanting things but when your asked to give back in return its never a unselfishly returned. I have recently encountered situations in life where people want things from me but are not willing to give in return. I do not care how big or little the wants are, it just so happens to be that its "ONE SIDED" You would think that of all people in our lives that our own family would be willing to help out when one needs it.

How about in times where you know that people are just careless with their money, need things done in their lives, but choose not to do it because its not as important to them as playing around in life.. Then when times get hard they come asking for help because they cant afford to do the things that should have been done in the first place. I have experienced this a lot with many family members. I believe its time to put people in place and tell them " You figure out whats more important and fix it ".

I do believe that its different when the helping hand is given to those who work hard and do not ask for it because they struggle to make it because the important things in life come first to them and after all said and done, cant afford fix something, so its offered to help them because the love inside of us knows they are humble people. However its not OK to be the lending hand when one uses their money foolishly. I have been used and bruised because people don't value the understanding of smart decision making and put other things before the most important ones..

When others are not willing to help my family out on the most important times in our lives, but in return ask me for something, that is not logical, its selfish (Regardless of the issue), and need to think twice about asking me for something when your not willing to look at the big picture in life.

THESE PEOPLE WILL NEVER USE & BRUISE ME AGAIN!!!!!!!!!