In-Laws...= DRAMA

So this blog is going to start by saying that I have certain In-Laws that never grow up. They love to blame problems on others and not take accountability for themselves. I can say that I have never been a part of a family where people do not control their own feelings, and when something is said they do not like, it makes them want to run and talk to a Psychologist. You want something worth crying about, have a brother that cut his private off because he wanted so much to be like a woman. HAHAHAAHAHAHA.. Talk about messed up! Being told you live in the GHETTO is nothing to cry about.

I am talking about my wife's Sister and Her brother and whom ever else wants to join them. I said that Arlington is GHETTO and, ya know what, that is my opinion and is factual. So what I said offended them and now has them crying and calling me names and being little devil children. You know how sometimes in fights where old crap gets brought up because one gets offended and they don't have anything real to say about the situation, they would rather pick on old crap, well that the situation. They were never taught to fight fair or maybe they were but never listened to their parents. I think its more the 2nd then the first but since I didn't grow up in that family, I can not determine that. "HOWEVER if I was to go off experience in the last 10yrs.. It would be the 2nd".

Now, I have to say that I CAN'T STAND CRYBABY'S and also I can not stand people hurting my wife's feelings. They say I drive a wedge between them, yet they never look in the mirror, they blame me when they need to blame themselves. They talk so much crap about each other and they don't realize that me being a IN LAW I know EVERYTHING... I have a few people that I honestly get along with in the family, and ya know what.. THEY ARE NOT FROM THE WYNNE side.. How Ironic is it that, I get along with only their spouses(Not including SG and MP). I have NEVER had a run in with one of the spouses.. EVER... I know deep down inside they all want harmony. I do too, I just do not like it when people are nice to your face but talk crap about you behind your back. I was told that I need to be nice and shut my mouth, but its OK for a certain person to blast my phone with text messages that I am a *hole. He also blamed me for his immaturity. I didn't create or raise the dude, so I don't know how he can blame me for his immaturity.

Lets talk about how I feel they treat my wife, their sister that they say they so dearly care for.. Well honestly, this is how it looks from the outside. When you have a bunch of sisters all they do is gossip, well it bleeds into the open air for me to here. I didn't have sisters growing up so majority of my friends were female. I knew to much about things woman thought and felt and how just a sarcastic look was grounds for breaking up with someone. I was friends with everyone. So when I hear them talk about each other I sit back and laugh because it brings back memories. What I have learned is that there is so much hatred between them all, they could each write a 1000page book on what they don't like about each other, including their mom whom I have grown to love more then my own mother. This blog is not about mom or Ron so lets keep them out of it.

Mom is the only one to come and visit us more then once, She even has her own bed to sleep in for when she stays over night. Ron came once to our new house, once or twice to the old house. Its more then any of them have ever come to visit. Maybe its because I am an *hole. Chuckle Chuckle...We have never complained on going to see them, paying toll, or gas, or time, but for them, its the end of the world. What things to be of an excuse to come spend time with their sister. They did the same thing to mom when she lived in Midland. $50 in gas was going to break their bank. I have never heard of asking someone to pay half their gas just to spend time with them as your family. "THAT SUCKS"....I always told Tracy that I would never ask her mom to pay for our gas for us to bring our kids to see her, even coming from Plano to Arlington which is "ONLY" 45min. They probably drink more soda in a week then it would cost them to come and visit.

As Tracy would say... WHAT EVER BECKY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love "ME" Just dont Judge Me !

OK, so here is what I have to say.. Its not going to be pretty, its going to be the facts and going to be to the point. I am not going to sugar coat anything and I think that if you read this and are offended so who gives a RATS @SS. So I love family, I love get togethers, I love family get togethers. I love family that is normal, and sane, and can enjoy and respect others feelings regardless of their point of view, even if its not what you think, they will love you regardless.

Now here is what I DON'T LOVE!!!. I don't care for people who can not accept life and others in life that rebuttal what they believe. I don't like it when you are made into an ASS because you say something that is factual and they get offended. I don't like it when they try to silence you because their poor feelings get hurt. Well who cares. I DON'T... I was raised to stand by your beliefs and respect others for their opinions and as long as its facts then your always safe to believe what you want. I can say this, I have in laws, and friends who do not like debate. Who cant stand to be told what is up when "STUPID IS AS STUPID DOES" happens in life. She has to post on her site that she has a "CERTAIN Sibling who has a CERTAIN husband" that makes her just want to cry because he said some things that were nothing but true... I just have to say, that I am thankful for my family who doesn't cry over spilled milk and was raised to chew on metal and climb out of Volcanoes.

A Kids Growing Pains

So yesterday my son decided to come home and write a note to me saying that he was at the park. I dont know what possessed him to do this because he has never been allowed to do this ever. He is not old enough to just come home and write a note and say, "Im at the park". Who the heck does he think he is... "ME".. Yea right.. He is not going to do all the stupid things I did when I was a kid.. Lets just say that he learned his lesson on this one and we dont expect it to happen again. I love my little buddy and he thinks he is so grown up. Then today he tells his mom to "SUCK THIS". WHAT!!!! I looked at her with dis belief.. She went off on him... He thought he was joking because he had farted and told her to suck his fart... GROSS yea.. but when I hear the words "SUCK THIS" it usually doesnt mean to suck a fart.. He is only 9 and is innocent but he now understands that he must watch what he says and its not ok to joke in that mannor. Gosh.. Whats next.....