Christmas Party

I am having Surgery on 16th of December. Having my Tonsil out. Having this family Christmas Party at my place 4 days later. If I honestly didn't feel up to it then I would cancel. So for those family who read this, I am not going to cancel the party do to my surgery. I don't talk much anyway so its no different then any other party.. Just different place...I may be hiding in the bathroom a lot because of all the fluids I will be sucking down other then that, Much love to you all for your concerns..Please drive safely...

Oh and Merry Christmas to you all...

In-Laws...= DRAMA

So this blog is going to start by saying that I have certain In-Laws that never grow up. They love to blame problems on others and not take accountability for themselves. I can say that I have never been a part of a family where people do not control their own feelings, and when something is said they do not like, it makes them want to run and talk to a Psychologist. You want something worth crying about, have a brother that cut his private off because he wanted so much to be like a woman. HAHAHAAHAHAHA.. Talk about messed up! Being told you live in the GHETTO is nothing to cry about.

I am talking about my wife's Sister and Her brother and whom ever else wants to join them. I said that Arlington is GHETTO and, ya know what, that is my opinion and is factual. So what I said offended them and now has them crying and calling me names and being little devil children. You know how sometimes in fights where old crap gets brought up because one gets offended and they don't have anything real to say about the situation, they would rather pick on old crap, well that the situation. They were never taught to fight fair or maybe they were but never listened to their parents. I think its more the 2nd then the first but since I didn't grow up in that family, I can not determine that. "HOWEVER if I was to go off experience in the last 10yrs.. It would be the 2nd".

Now, I have to say that I CAN'T STAND CRYBABY'S and also I can not stand people hurting my wife's feelings. They say I drive a wedge between them, yet they never look in the mirror, they blame me when they need to blame themselves. They talk so much crap about each other and they don't realize that me being a IN LAW I know EVERYTHING... I have a few people that I honestly get along with in the family, and ya know what.. THEY ARE NOT FROM THE WYNNE side.. How Ironic is it that, I get along with only their spouses(Not including SG and MP). I have NEVER had a run in with one of the spouses.. EVER... I know deep down inside they all want harmony. I do too, I just do not like it when people are nice to your face but talk crap about you behind your back. I was told that I need to be nice and shut my mouth, but its OK for a certain person to blast my phone with text messages that I am a *hole. He also blamed me for his immaturity. I didn't create or raise the dude, so I don't know how he can blame me for his immaturity.

Lets talk about how I feel they treat my wife, their sister that they say they so dearly care for.. Well honestly, this is how it looks from the outside. When you have a bunch of sisters all they do is gossip, well it bleeds into the open air for me to here. I didn't have sisters growing up so majority of my friends were female. I knew to much about things woman thought and felt and how just a sarcastic look was grounds for breaking up with someone. I was friends with everyone. So when I hear them talk about each other I sit back and laugh because it brings back memories. What I have learned is that there is so much hatred between them all, they could each write a 1000page book on what they don't like about each other, including their mom whom I have grown to love more then my own mother. This blog is not about mom or Ron so lets keep them out of it.

Mom is the only one to come and visit us more then once, She even has her own bed to sleep in for when she stays over night. Ron came once to our new house, once or twice to the old house. Its more then any of them have ever come to visit. Maybe its because I am an *hole. Chuckle Chuckle...We have never complained on going to see them, paying toll, or gas, or time, but for them, its the end of the world. What things to be of an excuse to come spend time with their sister. They did the same thing to mom when she lived in Midland. $50 in gas was going to break their bank. I have never heard of asking someone to pay half their gas just to spend time with them as your family. "THAT SUCKS"....I always told Tracy that I would never ask her mom to pay for our gas for us to bring our kids to see her, even coming from Plano to Arlington which is "ONLY" 45min. They probably drink more soda in a week then it would cost them to come and visit.

As Tracy would say... WHAT EVER BECKY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love "ME" Just dont Judge Me !

OK, so here is what I have to say.. Its not going to be pretty, its going to be the facts and going to be to the point. I am not going to sugar coat anything and I think that if you read this and are offended so who gives a RATS @SS. So I love family, I love get togethers, I love family get togethers. I love family that is normal, and sane, and can enjoy and respect others feelings regardless of their point of view, even if its not what you think, they will love you regardless.

Now here is what I DON'T LOVE!!!. I don't care for people who can not accept life and others in life that rebuttal what they believe. I don't like it when you are made into an ASS because you say something that is factual and they get offended. I don't like it when they try to silence you because their poor feelings get hurt. Well who cares. I DON'T... I was raised to stand by your beliefs and respect others for their opinions and as long as its facts then your always safe to believe what you want. I can say this, I have in laws, and friends who do not like debate. Who cant stand to be told what is up when "STUPID IS AS STUPID DOES" happens in life. She has to post on her site that she has a "CERTAIN Sibling who has a CERTAIN husband" that makes her just want to cry because he said some things that were nothing but true... I just have to say, that I am thankful for my family who doesn't cry over spilled milk and was raised to chew on metal and climb out of Volcanoes.

A Kids Growing Pains

So yesterday my son decided to come home and write a note to me saying that he was at the park. I dont know what possessed him to do this because he has never been allowed to do this ever. He is not old enough to just come home and write a note and say, "Im at the park". Who the heck does he think he is... "ME".. Yea right.. He is not going to do all the stupid things I did when I was a kid.. Lets just say that he learned his lesson on this one and we dont expect it to happen again. I love my little buddy and he thinks he is so grown up. Then today he tells his mom to "SUCK THIS". WHAT!!!! I looked at her with dis belief.. She went off on him... He thought he was joking because he had farted and told her to suck his fart... GROSS yea.. but when I hear the words "SUCK THIS" it usually doesnt mean to suck a fart.. He is only 9 and is innocent but he now understands that he must watch what he says and its not ok to joke in that mannor. Gosh.. Whats next.....

What..A Big Boned Lie..... You got Cankles...

Ok so I found this article about Cankles.. I thought its funny because Cankles are overly fat ankles that people get when your to obese to see your feet. So All you big boned nay sayers.. Your not big boned so stop using that as an excuse.. The verdict is in.

Taken from : http://www.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/08/24/chubby.ankles.cankles/index.html

Why would someone be so self-conscious about a certain part of her body? "I have cankles -- that's all I can say," she laments. "They are huge and they are horrible. ... And I will never wear a skirt or dress again."

Cankles? What are cankles? We've heard about saddle bags, muffin tops and love handles, but it seems that some women and men of the 21st century are now focused on the chubby joints of their lower extremities.

Far from being a medical term, "cankles" is slang for the part of the leg where the ankle meets the calf when there is no definition or indentation. In most cases, cankles are just large ankles -- what used to be called "big bones." But in society's quest for all things thin and shapely, big-boned ankles have taken on a name -- and a life -- of their own(By Val Willingham).

Some Dreams and Goals are never meant to happen

I have so many issues going on in my life right now. Today has been a day from hell and I just can not wait for it to end. Sometimes we will never accomplish the goals and dreams we set to achieve. I have been told recently that I waited to long in my life to get what I want. Because I am married and have children, Its not logical or achievable. Some people look at things differently then others and were raised to believe that they can have what they want if they just don't give up. I am told we need to give up and just accept what life hands to us. I am 34yrs old and have 2 kids. I am not set in my career as to what I want to do, and once I have found something that I really want, life gets thrown into my face.

I always thought that family meant that we would help each other out, regardless of what needs to take place, to get a head in life. When two people do not agree, feelings get hurt, and the heart saddens. This then leaves us in a state where we feel lonely and unsupported by those around us. I can definitely say that I am sad because I do not have what I want. I want a happy family, A good job/career, beautiful place to live, so I guess the saying is true.. "Some Dreams and Goals are never meant to happen".

Forget me not

Forget me not blogger says, to much going on in my life these days. With family issues, and work not so great, the world is getting worse with so much hate. Friends, are like the weather, they come and go, its to damn hot here in Texas, I hope this year it will snow. 105 degree weather and humidity I hate, I just got my tickets to the Utah Game and I cant wait. Just a month ago and 10years prior, I married my wife when we ran off to Las Vegas, so many ups and downs I wouldn't give it up for anything. A new little girl has come into our family, now 15 months old, she had me wrapped around her finger I am told. She is so precious to me and keeps me going each day, I would be lost with out my family in every way. My brother just got his own place with his girlfriend too, we don't need any boo's time two. It may seem like this is supposed to all rhyme, but I don't care how it all comes out, its been a long time. I am just so thankful for this last few months, I am excited to see what in the future comes.

School has been going well, been getting good grades, On the down hill stretch and I am excited in every way. Tracy said that we can move back to UTAH when I am done, Started packing my bags because that day will soon come. I miss the atmosphere, the mountains too, how you get all four seasons, and plenty to do, I think we would be most happy living our lives up there too. Hiking, Biking, 4wheeling too, Sports a plenty and temples galore, Living In SLC I couldn't ask for anything more. So I am excited for what the future brings, I will keep up with blogging about all the important things.

God Speed Us All.

Quick Update

So today is April 22nd and its been about a month or just little over since I have last posted anything. Tracy and I just moved into our first actual house. It had always been apartment living and finally we broke through and got a great house. I really like it. We are working on trying to buy it. I have been in touch with the landlord and he has told me that he will sell it to me for a really good deal.

Its nice because we have more space and we now when we pick at each other it doesn't hurt because we have room to where it doesn't feel so up close and personal. I helped Jr mow the lawn for the first time. Tracy took video of it. I will edit this post later with a pic once I get them off the camera.

Ashlyn Birthday is on Sunday. She is going to be 1yr old. WOW.. the last year just went right by. I am still only 34 and I feel like I am in my mid 20's. Who ever came up with the 30's is the new 20's and 40's is the new 30's... My dad said that he is 57 and he feels like he is in his 40's.. I told him now he is stretching it a bit. HAHA. My dad and I are doing better now and we actually talk on the phone about life and not.. "Hey is LJ home.. when he gets home have him call.. ok.. bye.." Then he would learn everything about us through LJ.. Well that has all changed. He actually has interest in me I feel and I appreciate him for that. Love ya dad.. It was his birthday yesterday.. I called him an old FART!. HEHE... He was ok with it.. didn't get offended being called old, he enjoys being picked on.. When you get old,, attention is more important then ice cream.

Anyway.. I will post again soon.. Ashlyn b-day party stuff will be put up with some pics as well.

God Speed..

Me!

Numbers Numbers EVERYWHERE

So lately I have been reminded what numbers have to do with us as people. Some times they are used as a guideline to measure formulas, or to guess the number of Jelly beans in a jar to win a prize at the state fair or local school event. We are given a number if we stand in a line up at the police station or asked to take a number to wait in line for the next service rep to assist us at the local DMV (by the way I hate the DMV waiting line).

We take a number when going to the airport waiting to board the plane, or we even use numbers to count oz when filling baby bottles with liquid.

Most recently numbers became an issue with what we all have to deal with in our lives. Its called AGE!. Some of us cant stand that every year we gain another number and it sometime down the line puts us into categories. We start with infants, to toddlers, to teenagers. We then become at some point ADULTS. As adults I didn't figure that numbers classified us as OLD (unless your my son who thinks that 34 is old). As the years go on, our numbers grow. We get another year older and so on. Some time in life we become ELDERLY. It happens. We use numbers to classify our status with age.

Recently I have been told that calling someone old is VERY disrespectful. I guess growing up I was never taught that this was a touchy subject. My grandmother was old, she died in her elderly years I think she was 80 something. I guess it must be the reality that if someone is offended by being called old, they must realize that their years are almost over. I will always believe that age is a number. Age is a number of what you are, not how you feel, and Old is only how you feel not what you are. My brothers mother..... Well she is an old retched.. well ya know, although she is 50 something, she is what she feels. I guess its the fact that she smokes and has psychological issues.

My father he is 58 I think, but he feels 40 or maybe even younger. I guess this is what happens when you marry someone that is younger then me!. So to those who get offended by the word "OLD"

I can only Quote the Great French Writer -Andre Maurois

"Old age is far more than white hair, wrinkles, the feeling that it is too late and the game finished, that the stage belongs to the rising generations. The true evil is not the weakening of the body, but the indifference of the soul".

A Fantastic Ending To A CRAPPY Weekend

On Thursday Feb 19th Tracy, Jr, Ashlyn and I flew to Denver to visit my brother Stan and Sister In law Debbie. It was her baby shower and Tracy needed to be there, since we could afford it, the kids and I went too. We got there Thursday night and had a great weekend. Some of the things we did was go out to eat, It was Jr's B-Day weekend so we took him to Casa Bonita's. One of my favorite places to go. Its all you can eat Mexican food and they have a Scary Cave, Game Room, and Cliff Divers for entertainment.

On Saturday my brother Stan had his race this weekend as well. We got the camper all ready and took it out there Friday night. We spent all day at the track on Saturday and Most of Sunday. He had practice on Saturday so Jr met some boys and girls out there and had fun playing with them as I watched my brother ride his Motorcycle during practice. Saturday Night we stayed at the Track out in Watkins

Jr, Stan and I. I asked Jr if he had to use the restroom, since all they had was portipottys and he said no. I was awaken Sunday Morning with my brother screaming at Jr. He pissed himself worse then I have ever seen in my life. He crapped all over Stan New 40Ft Trailer. All over the carpet. Tried to blame it on the Dog, however it was Jr. He didn't feel as if he needed to wake me up to take him potty so he just crapped all over the place. He tried to clean it up but didnt work, still got busted. It was too messy. Diarrhea cha cha cha.

Debbie and Tracy had a rude awakening as I called and got her out there quickly. Stan had me so worked up I was about crying. How embarrassing is that when your own son can not wake you up to use the restroom he had to do this.

It got cleaned and Jr went home with the girls to get cleaned up before they all came out for his race later on Sunday. We got passed the Crappy ordeal, and finished the weekend off good. On Monday before catching our flight home Stan and Debbie surprised JR and took him to Amazing Jake's. Its like this huge MR Ghatties, but with bumper cars, race cars, other rides for kids too. Laser Tag etc. Tracy, Stan and I tried to climb the Rock Wall in there, I couldn't get my FAT ASS up it, Tracy got 2/3rd the way and Stan made it all the way.

It was a fun weekend besides the bathroom incident in my brothers camper. I had a job interview and was told that the position is pretty much mine as long as I passed the Piss test and Background check. I have not heard of anything yet. They want me to start out there on March 9th. I don't know if that is going to happen if we move there because I can not go that quick. We will cross that road when the time comes.

Ashlyn has a ear infection and fever, she will get over it like most baby's do. Tracy and I are doing great. Just trying to recover from the trip and get back into the swing of things here. I have not written in a while so I hope you enjoyed this.

May You be Blessed

May you all be blessed that visit my site. Please visit the following link. I hope that you actually take the time to watch it. I believe that for a moment in time that I felt good and felt at peace with my thoughts as I watched this.

Enjoy

http://www.mayyoubeblessedmovie.com/

THE FLAWS OF THE BCS(Football) System

BCS DECLARES GERMANY WINNER OF WORLD WAR II

December 17, 2008

After determining the Big-12 championship game participants the BCS computers were put to work on other major contests and today the BCS declared Germany to be the winner of World War II.

Germany put together an incredible number of victories beginning with the annexation of Austria and the Sudetenland and continuing on into conference play with defeats of Poland, France, Norway, Sweden, Denmark, Belgium and the Netherlands. Their only losses came against the US and Russia; however considering their entire body of work--including an incredibly tough Strength of Schedule--BCS computers deemed Germany worthy of the #1 ranking."

Questioned about the #4 ranking of the United States, the BCS commissioner stated "The US only had two major victories--Japan and Germany. The computer models, unlike humans, aren't influenced by head-to-head contests--they consider each contest to be only a single, equally-weightedevent."

German Chancellor Adolph Hiter said "Yes, we lost to the US; but we defeated #2 ranked France in only 6 weeks." Herr Hitler has been criticized for seeking dramatic victories to earn 'style points' to enhance Germany's rankings. Hitler protested, "Our contest with Poland was in doubt until the final day and the conditions in Norway were incredibly challenging and demanded the application of additional forces."

The French ranking has also come under scrutiny. The BCS commented "France had a single loss against Germany and following a preseason #1 ranking they only fell to #2."

Japan was ranked #3 with victories including Manchuria, Borneo and the Philippines.

Now if this doesn't get an outcry of support for a play off system in College Football, it sure needs to be noted that the "DAMN" BCS System voted for Hitler as the victor of WWII.

GO UTAH UTES!!!!!!!!

Random Thoughts for the New Year

Some random thoughts for the new year. One, keeping a job as many are losing theirs. Two, Move to Denver by June. We are currently working on getting this house we want in Denver which may or may not happen. Three, Stay healthy, we always say we want to lose weight, however my goal is to LOSE WEIGHT! at least 25 to 40 lbs. 3rd I want to be successful what ever it is that I am to be doing. School is still going strong and I am doing well there. I just need to keep at it because just a little longer I will be done and be looking forward to the benefits of it. 4th just enjoy life, take time for myself and my family and not stress out to much. I feel that there is enough "STUFF" going on that others can handle it and I shouldn't worry about it. Don't sweat the small stuff. Continue to expect out of others what they expect out of me is something that will continue this year as well.

I think this sums it all up. God Speed!