Ok so here it is. I was told in an interview with Corptax they were looking to fill 4 positions. I found out today that I was not selected as they are only filling one position for now. This puts us in a mad crunch on what to do. I told Tracy that if I didn't get this position with Corptax that we would have to move to Denver because bills needed to get paid and I was guaranteed a job with my brother making good money.
I have given Tracy 2 decisions to make. One is move to Denver so she can stay at home and be an at home mom, or two stay here an work. I might get hired by T-Mobile but that is not enough to allow her to stay at home. Also looking at another possibility is Verizon may bring me back on in their superpages department but then again like T-Mobil, its not enough and she will have to work. I don't want her to have to work but if this needs to happen then we have to do whats best for the family. Tracy said that it didn't make sense for her to go back to work and for us to pay $$ for the kids to be in daycare, however if she made about $30K per year half of what she makes would go to daycare and the other half is enough for us to get into a house, and pay our bills. We are going to look at the pros and cons of both and determine what to do.
We are both praying really hard on what to do. I have a feeling that even if we are not supposed to move that Tracy will want to move just so she can be at home with the kids. I totally support her being home as a stay at home mom but if we want to stay here it can not be done financially. I can go back to school and get my bachelors and then get into teaching/coaching but that takes time and $$ as well.
If we end up moving to Denver then I will be leaving in 1 week from now and will live with my brother Stan. I will be back for the baby to be born and to help move the family 6 weeks after that. Tracy does not want L J living here while I am in Denver but she has no choice. He can not move out now and find a place until he moves to my moms if we move to Denver. I am not going to do that to him and though it will be hard on some, sacrifices have to be made for the best. If we stay here he knows he has to find a roommate and move out by this fall.
I love my family and I just want to do whats best for us all.
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Good luck to you guys! I'm sure you will do whatever is best for your family and just be confident that with prayer you guys will know exactly what to do, when the time is right!! Keep us posted!!!
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